Sometimes
we’re recognized or remembered by who we date. Maybe we’re part
of the popular circle depending on who’s dating
who.
Perhaps we’re out of this circle because we’re
not dating who we should be dating, who our friends
think we should be dating or even who our parents will
allow us to date. We’re not just talking about Brad Pitt
dating Jennifer Aniston then dating Angelina Jolie. Who’s dating
who is perhaps how we leave our mark.
Whenever
we sit around with our current group of friends
reminiscing, perhaps about our high school days we often
say, “Do you remember Jane?” Often we may
receive the response of, “Didn’t they date John?” Or “Didn’t they
go out with so-and-so’s brother?” This is a prime
example of how we may be remembered; it’s the who’s
dating who scenario.
We
may find ourselves embarrassed about who we’re currently
dating or who we've dated in the past. Perhaps our past
dates turned out to be some sort of failure one way or
another.
This is when we don’t want others to remember
who’s dating who. We don’t want to be remembered as the
“Jane” that dated that guy “John” who ended up being on
trial for some crime. Or the “John”
that never could hold a steady job. Sometimes
remembering who’s dating who is not always a good
thing.
We’ve all had those guys we’ve dated that even we
don’t want to remember.
Another
who’s dating who rule to live by is don’t date
your friends’ ex-boyfriends, or ex-girlfriends. Think about the
guy you had deep feelings for. Although he
never had the same feelings for you, you’d probably be
devastated if he started dating one of your closest
girlfriends.
You wouldn’t want this to happen to you, so just
avoid dating guys your friends may have dated. There are
so many men and places to find them; we don’t have to
date one our friends have already dated.
When
it comes to who’s dating who its best to keep in mind we
aren’t all movie starts like Jennifer Aniston or
Angelina Jolie.
Although part of us may wish we were. We’re just every
day, average women, each of us possessing unique and
special traits.
We’re all looking for that special someone. Searching
for that one particular man, a man that’s available and
compatible, to build that long lasting relationship
with.
