Most girls begin to read magazines and talk to their older, more experienced friends for tips on how to get a boyfriend when they reach middle school.† The search for these tips never quite falters over the years, but the validity of the tips does change dramatically!† It seems ridiculous to hang out at the mall with your girlfriends and laugh loudly when you spot the boy you have a crush on when he passes by and youíre 24-years old.† Boyfriend tips logically evolve to meet maturity and practical needs.† Most normal men and women have the urge to find someone to spend their lives with.† Understanding how attraction works and the tips on how to use attraction to your advantage is all you need to get a boyfriend that is right for you.
Consider this tip when thinking about how to get a boyfriend.† Think about your reasons for wanting a boyfriend in the first place.† Write down, ďI want a boyfriend becauseĒ and then finish the sentence with your own reasons.† If you want a boyfriend because you have a desire to care for someone one and to have someone care for you, that is a very healthy reason to want to get a boyfriend.† If you want to get a boyfriend because you are lonely or bored or even because all of your friends have boyfriends and you feel left out, those are not particularly healthy reasons to want a boyfriend.† If you get a boyfriend, the result is a relationship.† Relationships take some effort.† If you only want a guy to be around for the wrong reasons, everyone involved will most likely get hurt.
If you know you are ready to get a boyfriend, take some time to work on you.† You donít have to get a makeover or a new wardrobe.† You should work on your self-image and confidence.† If you want to get a boyfriend who is attracted to you for what you have to bring to a relationship, you need to be comfortable in your own skin.† Weight, ethnicity and clothing have far less importance than some sources of tips might have you believe.† Men are consistently attracted to confidence.† Confidence can equate to being comfortable in oneís own skin.†
Here is a tip on how to get a boyfriend to help you build your confidence.† Imaging that you are the most attractive woman no matter where you go.† Be careful not to appear aloof, as not many women have success in getting a boyfriend while she appears to act as if she is better than others.† Use this tip in order to help you believe you are truly as beautiful as you will appear to many potential boyfriends!
Another tip is to spend a few moments a day imagining yourself with your ideal man.† Picture you and your boyfriend cuddling, kissing or doing whatever you fantasize about doing.† If you have an idea in your mind about what kind of man you would like to have as a boyfriend, you may have a better chance of drawing that type of guy to you when you go out.† The combination of confidence and visualization can be powerful tools when you get yourself out there to look for a boyfriend.
Once you feel you are confident enough and ready to get yourself a boyfriend, you need to get out and be seen!† Use eye contact when you are out to get the attention of anyone you find attractive or interesting.† Your confidence may lead to certain guys noticing things about you he may not have before your new self-assurance.† Also, donít take it personally if a man doesnít seem interested.† It isnít that your confidence and appearance didnít work.† Chemistry plays an important role when trying to get a boyfriend.† You want a boyfriend who finds what you have to offer and appreciates you for you!