Some
women have a difficult time finding things to
say to attract men. These women have
the confidence to look good and feel good, but sometimes
that awkward moment happens when you are with a guy and
you are struggling to put something together to keep him
interested.
There are a number of things a woman can say
when attracting men, but they are almost worthless
unless she keeps her conversation light and
positive.
Men are immediately put off by women who have a
victim mentality or who just complain about work,
friends, men, past relationships and other topics. Always stay
positive when attracting men through conversation! The positive
attitude alone is attractive and the conversation that
follows is just icing on the cake.
When
you find yourself with an attractive guy and you’re
struggling to find something to say, there are some
really good conversation starters to rely on that will
not only attract him to you but engage his curiosity
about you as well.
If you are experiencing a moment of strained
silence, you can always ask a question. There are no
rules that forbid asking questions to any attractive
men! Of
course, you want to avoid asking about past
relationships.
Men sometimes don’t like to talk about what they
do when they are getting to know someone new because
they fear that some women are “gold diggers”. You can,
however, ask questions that may prompt him to offer
information about what he does for a living. Follow his cue
when saying anything to try and attract him to you. Men love to talk
about what they think or experiences they’ve had. Any guy is
attracted to a positive, relaxed and warm woman who is
interested in him.
You
don’t have to do all of the talking. Only help him
along while enjoying the conversation. Try to ask a
question about something interesting you noticed about
him when thinking of things to say to attract men. Men also enjoy
learning about the woman that they are talking to, so
don’t hesitate to let him know about you when the
opportunity arises. You can say
something about your hobbies, interests or your job as
long as you keep it positive. Remember,
positive people often have positive results when
attracting men.
Men are also attracted to women who are
independent and have their own
interests.
If
you find that you are really struggling to find
something to say that will attract a man, there are a
few tried and true conversation starters you can use to
help you out.
Most men enjoy a sport, so you can ask him if he
has a favorite sport or team. If you open the
window for men to talk about something they like, it
helps them to relax and be more attracted to you. As mentioned
earlier, try to notice something like his shoes or
watch. You
can mention you like it and ask him where he got
it. Men are
attracted to women who notice some of the details in the
effort they took to get ready for a night out.
When
all else fails, you can be a bit generic when
thinking of things to say to attract
men.
Ask him if he’s ever done something that you have
enjoyed doing or if he’s ever been to some of your
favorite places.
Men who are attracted to the women they are with
will want to make an effort to get to know you as
well. Men
have to show that they are interested in you, too, or
they simply aren’t worth your time. You can attract
men by being lighthearted and genuinely interested in
the conversation.
Nothing attracts men more than
that.
