Online
dating seems to be today’s way of meeting that special
someone.
There are a few rules to online dating
that just may save your life.
The
first rule to online dating is never give out
your home address or telephone number. You don’t want
someone harassing or stocking you, especially if you
told them under no uncertain terms that you’re not
interested in them. They may seem wonderful while
chatting online, but once you’ve met face to face, you
may not feel as comfortable with them. By giving your
address or phone number, you just may be leading this
person right to your doorstep.
When
the time comes for your first face-to-face date, always
make sure it’s in a public place. Agree to meet at
the movie entrance, or the lobby of the restaurant or
coffee shop.
Even if it seems gentleman-like for them to pick
you up at home, opt for driving yourself. This way you
have your own vehicle and you can leave whenever you
want or feel the need to.
Pay
your own way.
This important online dating rule is a safe
bet. Sure
women like to be pampered and taken out, who
doesn’t! By
paying your own way you won’t be left feeling that you
owe your date something. Plus, they’ll
see you as an independent woman who’s
self-sufficient.
This is just an added
bonus.
Another
online dating rule, make sure you inform a close friend
that you’re meeting your online date for the first
time. Ask
your friend to call you during the date. Perhaps even
have some predetermined code word. If you tell your
friend every thing is fine that’s great, enjoy it. If you’re a bit
uncomfortable perhaps say to your friend, “Are you
ok?” Then
you can tell your date that you’re sorry you have to
leave but your friend needs you. Now you’re free
to leave, plus you look like a reliable friend!
Following
rules for online dating will keep you safe. Use common sense
and don’t feel obligated to do something you don’t want
to do.
If for any reason you feel uncomfortable during
your date, don’t feel that you have to stay. You have your
own vehicle, use it. Call your friend
and tell them you’re on your way home, and as another
precaution, call them again once you’re home
safely.
