The
best way to
meet a good man
is to take steps to be a good woman. This does not
mean drop by his apartment every Tuesday to do his
laundry and clean up after him. Don’t offer to
do all the errands that he hates to do himself, he may
just be using you and therefore is really not that good
man you’re looking for.
Portray
yourself as the self-sufficient, intelligent woman that
you are. In
this day and age, men prefer women that can support
themselves, especially financially. If you don’t
have a steady job, perhaps find one, even if you have to
take a course to upgrade your education. This will show
dedication and determination. I’m sure if you
would prefer to be in a relationship with someone that
you didn’t have to support, you wouldn’t want to have to
pay for all the dates you go on and have to help him pay
his rent as well as your own expenses. This is an
important factor if you’re looking to meet a good man.
Join
some group activities. You could join
the gym, a Thursday night volley ball league, or even a
wood working class. If you would
like to meet a good man you’re more likely to find him
there, and not the local bar. You may even
find a good man at your city’s Saturday morning kid’s
soccer practice.
Certainly a lot of single dads take their kids to
soccer, hockey, dance class or swimming. Even if you’re
looking for a good man without kids, sometimes uncles
take their nieces or nephews to these sporting
commitments.
If
you’re trying to
meet a good man,
dress nicely.
If you happen to join a class, physical or
educational, try to look your best. Don’t show up to
wood working class in a mini-skirt and pumps, but
perhaps those nice fitting jeans. You don’t want
to look out of place; you just want to be noticed. Instead of
sitting in a corner reading a book while the kids are
playing hockey, stand up and cheer them on. No need to yell
at the top of your lungs, a little bit of clapping will
let that good man know you take interest in what’s
important to your child. This is sure to
attract him and you already have a common interest. This could be
the ice breaker to start a conversation and perhaps the
first date with that good man.
