So,
you’ve met the man who you really want to be with. He’s into you,
but you’re not sure how much he’s really “into
you”. You
want to do what you can to make sure he sticks around
long enough to give what you think could be great
between you both a try. It’s not rocket
science when it comes to figuring out how to
keep a man. The key to
having any man stay with any woman is to do what you can
to make him happy- within reason.
Just
reading that keeping a man happy is the way to
keep him in a relationship may feel like a huge step
back for women or a betrayal of feminist ideals, but it
really isn’t.
If you think about it, a man has to do what he
can to make a woman happy within reason as well in order
to keep a relationship working. If a man or a
woman isn’t happy, they often do what they can to find
happiness.
Healthy people with healthy self-esteem don’t
need to stay in relationships where their partner isn’t
pleased by the other partner’s
happiness.
Men
are pretty simple to keep happy. You don’t have
to change who you are or what you like to keep a
man. The
key to knowing how to keep a man happy is to always have
him waiting in anticipation. Anticipation of
the unknown is how to keep a man interested in a
woman. Meet
him at the door naked or send him a gift at work for no
reason. Be
creative about doing what you can to keep your man
happy.
Take
an interest in what he likes. You don’t have
to be passionate or obsessive about his interests. Men like to feel
important and your interest in what he likes gives him
some incentive to include you in his interests. If you detest
sports, chose an interest you can tolerate. Find out what
his favorite type of cuisine or food is and take him to
a restaurant or cook for him. Men like to feel
important and cared about. Keeping him
engaged by taking an interest in him keeps him
interested in you.
Some
people will tell you that keeping your appearance
perfect and maintained is how to keep a man happy. This simply
isn’t true.
While men do enjoy a woman who looks good, a
woman who is perfect all of the time sets a level of
expectation that no man wants to have to meet. It’s okay to
have a day in sweatpants and a ponytail. Men want to be
with a woman who keeps him interested and feeling
special.
Caring for a man is the best way to keep
a man.
