Trends
Now
Gone are
the days when the ‘Princess’ could just sit and wait for
her ‘Prince Charming’ to come and ride her away on his
white horse. Waiting for someone to come and propose to
you for marriage or for going out is futile and a simple
waste of time in today’s date. Go out and move around if
you really are looking forward to be asked out by the
guy. Here, one is not asking you to be overt in your
reactions and blow the trumpet around. You can easily
get across your motives in the most subtle way. If you
are not going to be really inclined and interested in
the complete approach, the guys around you will also not
take up any task in an enthusiastic and serious manner.
What all
are the ways one can do
it?
- Increase
interaction
One of the
most efficient ways is to try and interact with as many
people as possible. Socialize with people from diverse
backgrounds so that you will easily be able to gauge
your compatibility with different men. Divide your
communication into various levels and if the opposite
person becomes really friendly, you too should not step
back. One has to reciprocate if she wants to see
shinning results in various relationships. Men loose
interest when they feel that there is no reciprocation
from the opposite side and hence move on to some one
else.
- Intellectual
Quotient
Do not
promote jabbering; instead lighten the conversation with
an intelligent talk that helps you portray your self in
a comfortable manner. Let your side of humor and
wittiness fall across in the backdrop of the
conversation. Men usually prefer women who are humorous.
Your intellect and your fine abilities would be
highlighted if you keep this point in mind.
- Seem
approachable
It is very
important that you come across as a person who is
approachable. If you do not move out of your shell, it
will be next to impossible for the other person to come
to you and put forth his mind. Men are not going to kill
dragons for you just to talk to you. Try letting him
have his space and he will undoubtedly get back to you.
- Body
language and appearance
For
a good personality one should always keep a good body
posture as your body language would reveal a lot about
you. Your appearance should be natural and presentable.
Be comfortable in whatever you are wearing. If you are
conscious of your own self, it’ll be very difficult for
you to concentrate on other things and your approach
will not be as effective as it could’ve been. Try not to
wear clothes which make you feel
uncomfortable
- Keep
the fighter spirit going
Do
not fear or fret about rejection. It is a part and
parcel of life, especially the Mr. Right hunt. If you
are emotionally very unstable, a person who may have
approached will think a hundred times before he actually
does. Try becoming strong if you want guys to fall for
you. Weak personalities are not really welcome in the
darker sex. They want supporters for life!
- Set
the line of intrigue
Open up to
a certain extent so that the guy doesn’t feel that you
are a total introvert and you should not open up totally
as the element of secrecy will totally vanish otherwise.
Final
Word
Look good
and even feel good at the same time! A man will only
ask you out if he finds enough potential in you. The
compatibility ratio with every prospect is going to be
different. The guy also analyzes as much as you do and
without measuring the complete situation, he is just not
going to get to any conclusion. How to get a guy to ask
you out will not be much difficult if you think about it
from his point of view. Start becoming slightly
accommodating in your approach and this is the only way
to get a guy attracted to you. ‘Love at first sight’ is
a thing that happens only one in a crore time, that too
it isn’t the love in first sight, but a feeling that you
have come to conclusion after certain course of time.
Try not
faking anything and the guy will automatically be
attracted to your original personality. If you fake
something, it is not going to be a long lasting thing as
the reality will be unveiled at some or the other point
of time. Just take things in an easy stride, believe in
yourself and you will be the apple of eye of many guys.
