Most
woman will agree with the fact that it is one thing to
have a man fall for you, it is quite another to keep him
interested in you. There seems to a misconception that
in order to keep a man you have to be thin and model
beautiful, but do you read all the gossip magazines? How
often are they being dumped? Quite a few. If you really
want to know how to not only get a man, but also keep
them, follow these simple steps.
Improve
your self-confidence. While a man may find insecurity
attractive at first, if they constantly have to reassure
you that you are all they are interested in, and that
there isn’t anyone else… they are going to start looking
for someone else. Increasing your self-confidence can be
as easy as repeating an affirmation such as “I am
beautiful,” or “ I am sexy,” or “I am attractive.” Stop
comparing yourself to other woman, you are wonderful the
way you are. It is time that you acknowledge
that.
Take
care of yourself. One thing that we as woman are guilty
of is getting comfortable in a relationship and letting
ourselves go. Take pride in the way you look. Even if it
is a hang out at home day and you just want to lay
around in yoga pants, make sure that your clothes aren’t
holey, you can still put your hair up in a cute pony
tail and put on some eyeliner. When you take pride in
the way you look you feel better. It is all about
you!
Have
a social life. Even if that social life is a book club,
be involved in life. There is a difference between just
being alive and living. Spend time talking to your
girlfriends on the phone. Men like to be needed, they
like to know that you enjoy your time with them but
being clingy is a turn off for most men. Have a life
outside your relationship.
Don’t
be afraid to try new things. That is the best part of
starting a relationship and keeping that relationship
going. As you learn about one another you have to be
willing to try some of the things that your mate is
interested in… as the relationship progresses it will
help the two of you find other things that you both may
find interesting and want to try together.
You
want a man that is going to respect you and cherish you…
for that to happen you first have to respect and cherish
yourself.
