It’s
easy to keep a man happy, if you are aware of a few key
factors and you are willing to go the extra mile in your
relationship.
Most men really don’t need too much pampering;
just the sense that the special women in their lives
understand what makes them tick.
Your
Appearance
It
might sound shallow, but men are visual creatures when
it comes to women.
You don’t have to be a beauty queen; obviously,
you just need to make the most of what you’ve got. Any woman,
regardless of shape or size, can turn herself into a
ravishing beauty when she believes in herself. But be
realistic.
If your man asks you to change your appearance,
to make this smaller or that larger, take that as a red
flag that something else in the relationship is going
wrong, and deal with it as such.
Your
A
man certainly wants to know that you love him, but he
doesn’t want to feel responsible for your every
move. Make
sure that you don’t cut off your friends and other
social engagements the moment your relationship starts
to take off.
The number one turn-off for some men is a woman
who doesn’t have her own life. Any strong,
solid, healthy man will expect the same from his woman,
so keep it balanced!
With
that said, however, be careful about the ex-boyfriends
that you maintain as friends. We’ve all been
through the relationship where the significant other is
still talking to the ex. “We’re just
friends,” your significant other will say, but keeping a
true friendship after a relationship is over is
difficult, and only the minority of people can truly
achieve it. If you are still friends with your ex, be
honest with your current man and let him know what’s
going on.
It’s better he find out from you than from
somebody else.
The
Path To The Heart Is…
Yes,
it’s a clich?, but do you know what your man likes to
eat? Do you
cook it every now and then? Or do you just
go out to restaurants and let him order it off the
menu?
Whether your man likes Filet Mignon or Tofu with
stir-fry vegetables, make him his favorite meal every
now and then, just to show you
care.
In
The Bedroom
Is
he making you happy? If not, what do
you do?
Talking about sexual issues, especially if they
are negative, usually makes things worse. If you feel like
something isn’t right sexually, and you aren’t sure how
to talk about it, don’t! Find creative
solutions in the moment to make your sex life more
original and fun.
If you want to tell him something, tell him in
bed. It
will drive him wild, and you’ll wind up getting repaid
in spades!
Tell
Him How You Feel
In
the emotional realm, simple
communication goes a long way. If he is making you
happy, let him know! If he’s not, let
him know also, but in a way that invites constructive
communication.
Don’t just tell him, “I hate the way you leave
the empty bag of chips on the couch!” This leads
nowhere except resentment.
Be
Successful
Ultimately,
doing what you love to do and being successful is the
best aphrodisiac.
If you are doing what you love and making
yourself happy doing it, your happiness and light are
going to be contagious. So follow your
own dream,
and all else will follow. If you become
successful and your man becomes resentful, take
notice.
Don’t you ultimately want to be with a man who
respects and honors your own personal
happiness?
