If you’ve
ever heard the clich?, “Misery Loves Company”, then you
know that the opposite must be true as well. Company doesn’t
love misery and that is especially true when it comes to
dating. If
you could poll women all over the world, it isn’t likely
you would come across anyone who got a guy to go out
with them by being morbid or gloomy. If you want open
the door to dating just about any guy, adopting a fun,
care free attitude is how to get a guy to go out
with you.
When you
meet a guy, be confident in how gorgeous you are but
don’t cross the line and be cocky. It can be a fine
line and not many men have the courage to go out with a
cocky woman.
Confidence is attractive. It is a simple
fact between men and women and it is the reason most
guys got out with girls and vice versa. When you meet a
guy you want to go out with, be complimentary about
something he is wearing or the way he wears his
hair. Guys
want to go out with women who make them feel good. You don’t have
to make something up and be superficial. If you find a
guy attractive in the first place, there is always
something you can offer a compliment on.
Making
your guy feel light and carefree is how to get a guy to
go out with you!
If the conversation turns serious, it isn’t
likely a guy will consider going out with you. Guys want to
have fun and feel special. Casual flirting
and conversation about topics that pose no threat to
anyone is appealing to guys when they are first getting
to know you.
Current movies, music, books and other common
interests are great light topics to discuss and joke
about.
These things can also be effective in giving a
guy who is interested in you the opportunity to ask you
out.
If you’ve
done all you think you can, it seems like the time with
your guy went great and he still hasn’t asked you out,
you have every right to ask him out! There is nothing
wrong with asking a guy out. Some guys fear
rejection enough to let it prevent them from asking even
the greatest girls out. Just keep a
light and positive attitude, give him the opportunities
and take the initiative if you have to. Now you have all
you need to know how to get a guy to go out with
you.
