You’ve
seen him and you know that he’s the one you want. You don’t know
much about him but the way he smiles, laughs and carries
himself with his friends. This guy seems
to be with a group of other guys and he doesn’t seem to
be involved with anyone else at your location. So what do other
girls know about how to get a guy to ask you
out that you don’t? You don’t need
to stress about it any longer. You can do what
other girls do to get guys to ask them out without being
overtly flirtatious or dressing provocatively. Guys want to ask
attractive girls out all of the time and all a girl has
to know is how to give the guy opportunities to
ask her out.
Instead of
taking a ton of time to get all primped and ready to
dazzle, take more time getting comfortable. Guys are
attracted to women who are comfortable and make those
around them feel comfortable as well. How you make a
guy feel is sometimes more than half the battle! To make the
initial connection with the guy you want to ask you out,
keep in mind how powerful eye contact and a smile can be
for a first impression. Good, solid eye
contact goes a long way in getting a guy to ask you
out. It’s
okay to practice your eye contact and smile. If you can get a
really good provocative smile when you make eye contact,
your guy is likely to tune out all that is in the room
and focus solely on you.
If you are
able to make good eye contact and get a response from
your guy, you may have to make the first move and
approach him first. Don’t stress too
much about it!
Men are attracted to women who are confident
enough to make the first move and introduce
themselves.
Standing around all night making great eye
contact but doing nothing about it is not how to get a
guy to ask you out. Some guys fear
rejection enough to keep them from approaching anyone
even if they’ve been given positive signals. You don’t have
to do more than introduce yourself and possibly comment
about something he is wearing like his shoes or his
watch. The
fact that you went out of your way to take notice of
this guy’s efforts to look good can go a long
way.
Don’t
focus on getting a guy to ask you out and make it your
mission from the start. Focus more on
connecting with a guy through light conversation. Don’t talk about
anything heavy like politics, religion and especially
not past boyfriends. Movies, music,
television shows, books and pop culture media are
wonderfully light conversations to have with a guy you
are trying to connect with. During the
conversation, indulge in some lighthearted
flirting.
Finally,
you have to give a guy an opening to ask you out! Some guys need
this kind of signal before he will ask out a girl. When talking
about things that couples often do like go to the
movies, casually mention that you have no guy to go
with. You
can also ask if a guy has seen a movie and if he hasn’t
that you would like to go and see it, too. It seems a bit
like hinting, but some guys need a push to get him to
ask a girl out.
Now that
you know how to get a guy to ask you
out, you can confidently approach the guy you
have your eye on.
If you don’t have a particular guy in mind, you
can be ready for when you do come across a lucky
guy. Always
stay upbeat and positive. If a guy fails
to ask you out, there are no rules preventing you from
taking charge and asking him out!
