The world
is full of both good relationships and bad
relationships.
The one common thing that good relationships have
is that both people have health self-images and
independence.
There can be many things that made a bad
relationship what it is, but many times one or both
people have very unhealthy self-images. If you are a
girl who is always wondering what you have to do to get
a good guy, the good news is that you aren’t doomed to
these kinds of relationships for the rest of your
life. You
can have a good relationship with a good guy. Believing you
are a good girl with good things to bring to a
relationship is how to get a good
guy.
A good
self-image doesn’t just appear like magic and neither
will a good guy.
If you are in a relationship with someone who is
not a good guy, you need to get out of it as soon as
possible.
Once you are single, it is a good time to start
facing what it is that makes you doubt how good you
really are and why you feel that way. These are
questions that might require therapy or intense
soul-searching, but it is a good thing to do if your
ultimate goal is a good relationship with a good
guy. You
need to believe you are beautiful on the inside and the
outside and that any good man would be lucky to have
you.
Once
you’ve got a good feeling about who you are and you are
comfortable with that, establishing your independence is
the next step in how to get a good guy. Women who are
clingy, desperate or needy are often preyed upon by men
who take advantage of their insecurities and
self-doubts.
These are not good men and they don’t end up in
good relationships. Good men tend to
know that independence is healthy and they want a woman
who has her own interests and activities. Join a book club
or gym, make dates to go out with good friends, take
classes or pick up a new hobby. Good men find
independent women interesting, sexy and sometimes even
mysterious.
Strength
and commitment to improving your own self-image is how
to get a good guy.
Every woman deserves to get a good guy and your
turn is next.
Take a good look at what you might need to work
on, take the time you need to do it and have fun
exploring your new independence. Once all of
these things are in place, the last thing you need to do
is believe that you deserve a good guy and that he is
out there for you.
