We
all know they’re out there, but why are they so hard to
find?
You’ve been on the search for months, if not
years, looking for a good man. You frequently
hear yourself saying, “All the good ones are
taken.”
Maybe you’re just looking in all the wrong
places.
Know
What You Want
There
could be a good man right under your nose. First you have
to decide what a good man means to you. Some women
want a man that can financially support them. Other women want
a man that can live with them as an equal, both working
and supporting a family and a household. There are even
women that want to be the one to support a man, and just
have him around for pleasure. Regardless of
your reasons for wanting a man, you have to make a
decision on what you consider to be a good man.
That’s
where He’ll be
When
finding a good man, depending on his
characteristics, that’s where he’ll be. If your idea of
a good man is someone who shares the same goals in
raising and supporting a family and home, perhaps you’ve
been looking for love in all the wrong places. Maybe you should
take a walk in the local dog park. If you don’t own
a dog that’s fine, surely you know someone that
does. Check
out a local little league game, or another kids sporting
event.
You’ll be sure to find a good man there,
showing his kids support by watching them play their
game.
Maybe
it’s Me
It’s
hard to look deep within ourselves and do some
self-evaluating.
We often don’t see flaws in ourselves that others
may see.
The majority of women often say, “What’s wrong
with me.”
We see ourselves as giving, nurturing females,
each having physical characteristics that we may want to
change. Perhaps we all need to lose a pound or two, or
its they way we carry ourselves that hinders us from
getting that good man to take notice. Don’t worry
about the things we can’t change. We can all use
improvement on our day-to-day outlooks. Grab a self help
book, perhaps on self-esteem. Become proud and
confident in whom you are, and be happy with yourself
and that good man may easier to find.
There
are a few good men out there, they are not intentionally
hiding, just probably looking for a good woman, and that
woman is you.
