Do
you ever wonder why some women date older
men?
You often see a man and a woman together, arm in
arm and you’re not sure if they’re a couple or father
and daughter.
Yet they seem to be incredibly happy as they walk
down the street or across the room. There could be
many reasons why some women tend to date older
men.
Daddy’s
Girl
When
we were little girls, we’d usually run to daddy when
things went wrong.
The protection we received when running into his
strong arms, his ability to make everything right, gave
us security we needed. Daddy had a way
to make our mountain of a problem seem like a mole
hill. This
is one of the many reasons why women prefer to date
older men.
They receive that sense of security they require
to feel safe.
Women feel that by dating an older man they will
stay protected from whatever curves life decides to
throw their way.
We often hear that women tend to date men who
have characteristics of her fathers.
Stability
Another
reason women prefer to date older men is to have that
sense of stability. By dating an
older man we can only assume that he has established
himself financially. The older man
probably has a good steady job, a home that may already
been paid for, and perhaps some expensive toys to
enjoy. The
older man may provide you with financial stability which
will give you, as a woman less to worry about, therefore
relieving some financial stress. Being able to have this
stability and security would make women appreciate the
advantages of dating an older man. This doesn’t
mean he has to totally support you, but provide
sanctuary.
Maturity
Let’s
assume that the older you are, the more mature you
are. We all
want a partner who’s mature and has the ability to
communicate instead of freaking out every time a problem
occurs. By
dating an older man we may receive that maturity
we want and need for a successful relationship. Having that
mature out-look on life can help elevate those otherwise
stressful situations.
Let’s
face it; women like all people, require emotional
security.
By dating an older man we may find ourselves in a
relationship with less stress and worries as we feel we
are being taken care of, giving us they emotional
strength we think we necessary.
