If
you’re preparing for the ever popular speed dating or
just have some basics requirements your companion must
possess, prepare a list of dating game
questions.
You
may feel you’re preparing to interview someone for a
job, in reality asking some simple dating game
questions isn’t too far from that concept. This can
apply for online dating as well as your first date in
person.
Without
being too forward, ask your date if they have ever been
in love.
The answer to this question may determine whether
they’re actually capable of loving someone, including
themselves.
If you’re looking for that long-term commitment,
this may play an important factor.
Perhaps
ask why they’re single. If they seem to
have it all together, wouldn’t you be curious to know
why they’re not in a relationship? Maybe they
had a cheating spouse, or even worse, they’re the one
that cheated.
Ask
about long-term goals or where they see themselves in
five years.
This could help determine if they’re ambitious
and have a plan in life. You may see some
common goals that you may have for your own future. Nobody wants to
be dating someone that is lazy and needs to be carried,
especially financially.
Speaking
of which, ask about their job, how long they’ve been
there and even lighten it up a bit by asking if they
enjoy their job.
Inquire about the good and bad aspects they see
in their workplace. For your own
security you don’t want to have to be responsible for
flipping the bill while they’re between jobs or waiting
in the unemployment line.
Inquire
about their family. Do they have
kids? Do
they want more?
Focus on comments they may make about their
mothers. A
good word of advice, if they treat their mother’s with
respect and consideration, odds are they’ll treat their
spouse the same way.
Ask
what they do in their spare time. If they happen
to say they have no spare time, maybe they won’t have
time for you either. Even worse, they
may have all the spare time in the world but chose not
to use it wisely and spend their hours watching the
sports channel and drinking beer.
By
asking some common simple dating questions, you can
establish if they’re worth your time and effort and see
if they’re compatible for you and your
lifestyle.
