People have made the idea of the best place to meet men far more complicated than it has to be. If you think about it, where did you meet many of your friends? What was it that made you friends in the first place? What is it that makes your friendship last? Friendship with both men and women has one common factor. Friendship survives on a connection or “chemistry” as well a shared common interest. Relationships with men are, of course, different to a point. However, the same foundation you found in friendships is the same you will find when thinking about the best places to meet men.
Relationships with men often work when both the man and the woman have at least something in common. Think about what you have a passion for and then think about ways you can use that passion to meet men. If you are a religious woman and you want to share a relationship with a man of the same faith and values as you, you might want to try to meet men in places you know from your church or events organized by your church. If books and literature are your passion, there are many men who share a similar passion. Find places where you can attend lectures, book readings or book signings. Book stores may also work out as a good place to meet men.
If you are having trouble coming up with the best place to meet men for you and your particular interests, you might consider asking friends and family what they think. Many relationships between men and women have begun because one person knew two single people with similar interests. Never say “no” to a blind date. Have your date in a very public place for safety but go and meet the man with an open mind. You never know who you might meet on the recommendation of someone who knows you well. You might even find that you meet men based on how kind and genuine you were with your blind date!
Finally, if you don’t feel that you have any interests or you’ve exhausted the resource you thought was the best place to meet men, it might be time to learn something new. If you’ve always wanted to learn to do something, now is the time to do it. If you want to learn to water ski, find a place to take a class. You never know how many men you’ll meet along the way. Always leave your home knowing that wherever you are going, it might end up being the place you meet the man you are going to marry.